Monday, December 11, 2006

How do you tease?

Hey Carlos,

... just got the
Dating Black Book..good stuff..I have been trying lots of your stuff out and it really is working. For Example...Less is more. Don't hang around the women too much it is better to be off doing your own thing..This works!!! Also, the cell phone stuff... This works great..

To Tease to please..This has been hard for me..I was at a party over the weekend and I really needed to bust this girls chops. I kept looking for an opening but could not find one. The girls has to screw up so you can bust her balls...Well...she never did in front of me..between my cruising around the party and coming back talking a little then off I go..cruising around..and coming back..I was just locked in frustration...

The date b4 this one I was busting her balls and it was working great..but I nailed her everytime she messed something up...I am looking for ways to start this.. I have this mental I cannot do it..but I know I can..I just need some practice or something to get me started or some examples. I have not found too many examples... I just need to find the rhythm.

Thanks for your great work.


These examples come from real life. You just need to make an exercise of finding a way to tease people based on
ANYTHING at all.

It's really not very hard. All you need to do is think about how you used to behave on the playground as a kid.

You don't need to wait for a "screw up..."

You just have to make your opportunity.

If she's standing there waiting for her drink, you can look at her and say, "Don't tell me, Vodka martini, shaken not stirred. Or the other way around when you're feeling moody."

Or she says something about her niece:
You say: "Okay, c'mon. Let me see it."

She'll say, "What?"

You say: "The picture of your niece you carry with you. I know it's there."

The best way to learn is to watch a lot of movies that have good Alpha Role models.

Teasing is simply finding something about them that you can put in a humbling/human perspective.

Not to humiliate or make a person feel bad, but to give them a new way of looking at things that gets rid of pretense.

"You're going to University of Washington? Oh, boy. You're one of THOSE girls..."

"If you liked THAT movie, I bet you also like those goofy scary movie comedies, too..."

"If you drink that water any slower, it's going to evaporate before you're done..."

A poke in the ribs and a smile. The recipe to a great energizing interaction.

If you want real life verbal examples of this, you need my Approach Women NOW program, with various examples of how to keep the banter going in conversations.

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