Dear Single Man:
Have you ever been in that moment with a woman where you KNOW you should make a move - like hold her hand or kiss her - and the time is right... but you back down and chicken out at the last second?
- Do you feel frustrated with how you're dating women - being stuck on HER sexual timetable?
- Do you feel like you're in a state of sexual "limbo" - unable to connect with women and get them into the bedroom?
- Do you feel like you lack the sexual POWER to choose the kind of woman you want for a girlfriend? That all the women you want are "out of your league," and you're going to have to settle for less if you want to get any sex?
- Do you feel like you're trapped in a "negative loop" - unable to break out of your anxious thoughts long enough to feel comfortable and sexually confident around women?
Do you want to know how to date girls like this? Keep reading to find out...
Look, let's cut to the chase... You're sexually frustrated.
You want to get laid. You probably even want a girlfriend and not just a one night stand. (But hey, either one would do...)
You see all those guys around you either using some kind of fake banter or clever tricks to get women, but you've either tried it and couldn't pull it off, or it's just not you and you don't even want to bother with it. And as pissed off and frustrated as you might be, you don't want to be a manipulative jerk or deceptive just to attract a woman.
You've got some standards, and that's important.
BUT this situation is getting old, and you really need some results - FAST!
There's So Much To Get Right Just To Get A Woman Interested In You...
There are a lot of steps between first meeting a woman and getting physical with her, aren't there?
To get her into bed, you'll need to know the roadmap of sexual escalation...
And what about sex?
- First you gotta think of something cool to say to walk up and approach her, and you risk getting rejected even IF you manage to work up the balls to do it. (Let's face it - most of the time it's more comfortable not to bother and just avoid the risk of getting shot down...)
IF you're not shot down, then you have to try to get her interested in you with some witty conversation and banter...
And IF you can get her attracted and interested, that's still no guarantee you'll get her phone number...
And most of the time, it's either a bad number, or she never answers... (Even when you think you got things started GREAT with her.)
And IF you do call her and talk to her, how do you get that first date...?
And then how do you make sure she doesn't flake out on you...?
Wait, what about getting the second date...?
What do you do to get a kiss?
And then what about getting more physically intimate with her...?
You see, the most important thing to know about this chain of steps from approaching a woman to dating her to sleeping with her is this:There is ONE absolutely critical attraction element you must have to get women to go 'all the way' with you.
And if you're missing this one CRITICAL
piece of the puzzle, THIS will probably happen to you:
- She'll flake out early on or just lose her interest. I call this "Failure to launch" syndrome...
And even IF you get a date or two, it fizzles out just when you should be getting hot and physical...
And even IF you beat the odds and make it to the bedroom, there's no real fireworks there, and the chemistry dies.
And when you're missing this vital piece of the picture, you usually wind up with her telling you she wants to "just be friends."
So again, you need this critical ingredient in your back pocket
or nothing you do will work right with women. It took me years to identify and find this one critical piece of the puzzle. It's the "magic bullet" for guys who want to put an end to their sexual frustration once and for all.
What 99 Out Of 100 Guys Don't Know
About "Escalating" With Women...
lmost none of the guys out there know about this, and it's why most guys wind up settling for women instead of having a "trophy" on their arm. I'm willing to bet that you've experienced the "Flinch." What is the "Flinch"?
It's that point where you shy away from showing your sexual interest in a woman. You know you've reached a point where you SHOULD do something to "make a move," but you don't.
Maybe there's a pause in the conversation where you should ask for her number... and you don't. Or you call her up to ask her out, but she seems distracted... so you don't. Or she seems ready for the kiss, and the moment is right... but you don't.
You back off or chicken out. You start to lose your sexual confidence.
Do You Recognize These 5 Early Warning Signs?
Do you ever hide your sexual desires from women? (Trying to sneak in and be indirect?)
Are you afraid to touch a woman (even on the arm) on the first date?
Are you afraid of being "caught" admiring a woman's appearance?
Do you think it's disrespectful to make a sexual advance on a woman without a very clear invitation?
Do you find yourself looking away quickly when making eye contact with women?
If you can identify with any of those signs, it's very likely that what I'm about to tell you will completely transform your sexual success with women. Even if you've tried other methods in the past and had limited success - or NO success.
I'll tell you this: I've personally experienced all 5 of those situations above at one point or another. And no, it's not your fault you have trouble getting sexual with women. So the man's BIG MISTAKE is this:
Most Guys Wind Up HIDING Their Sexual Interest In Women...
This mistake is much much worse than showing too much interest, by the way. Why do guys keep their interest in a woman hidden like this?
At first I thought it was because we were afraid of ruining things with women. After all, most women can be approached and will talk to you
. But when you get ten minutes into a conversation, if you're faced with possibly taking a risk on her saying NO, you probably won't take that risk.
You'll back off from taking the next step because you don't want to ruin what you've got, right?
But what I saw underneath it all was a fear. This fear is ruining the ability of most men to get things started with women they're attracted to. So what I realized was... The Real Reason Guys Hide Their Sexual Mojo Is... Because they feel sexual PANIC around attractive women.
And when you feel sexual panic - and she senses it - this KILLS your sexual confidence. The "ONE critical thing" I've been talking about - that you need - is this:
The Secret Is Sexual Confidence...
When you have "sexual confidence," women will feel naturally attracted to you...
If your sexual confidence gets "turned off" when you're with a woman, she'll sense it.
There's an old bit of sales wisdom that says that bad salesmen are 'bad' simply because they don't believe enough in the product they're selling.
And the BEST salesmen believe they've got something fantastic - and every person alive needs to have this thing. They'd never let someone walk away without buying it. They'd actually be doing their prospect a disservice by not convincing them to get one.
You don't need any clever sales techniques when you REALLY believe in what you'r