Alpha Isn’t Bad

When someone tells you that being an Alpha is bad, or it’s this and that, remember that they’re trying to color your perception. They’re trying to steer you away from a path of understanding and enlightenment.

Trust your own intelligence to figure out what an Alpha Man REALLY is.

He’s already inside of you. It just takes a little work to let this instinct out so that you can become the COMPLETE you.

There are a lot of guys out there who haven’t been able to open themselves up to letting out this TRUE nature inside them. They hide it behind “Politically Correct” BS about not hurting other people’s feelings, or being sensitive.

It’s really a fear to let other people see the REAL you. The man that wants to achieve.

The man that wants women in his life.

The man that wants monetary success.

The man that wants power over the forces of life that seem to control him.

Forget about all this “Alpha” talk and just open your mind up to finding this part of you that isn’t held back by fear, and is ready to reach out for understanding that could – and will – change your life for the better.

So on one hand we have the lowly AFC, or non-Alpha. He’s a little insecure, possibly low
self-esteem, but WANTS to grow and change.

On the other hand we have the Alpha, the confident and assertive man with healthy communication and
self-esteem.

There is only one direction of growth here, and it’s from the AFC to the Alpha.

What is the Alpha?

He’s a MODEL.

He’s the prodigal “seducer” if you will. The Model is an example that we can use to illustrate the
best case scenario. The Ideal. (Kind of like how Michaelangelo’s statue of David exemplifies the
perfection of the human form.)

You see, the AFC can’t make a quantum leap and BECOME the Alpha all at once. It’s not that simple.
He needs an idea of what this goal is that he’s pursuing that gives him the result of “I’M
SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN.” The Alpha Model provides him with a framework – a picture to draw in his
mind of the attitude he’s after.

 

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How does the AFC become the Alpha then?

By creating a PATH.

We, gentlemen, provide that Path of development – the inspiration, tactics, and practical field
examples that this AFC can then use to pin on his mental framework of the Alpha Man. The Model
becomes clearer in his mind the more he uses the tactics and strategies and gains understanding
through their application.

Now, when he uses these techniques, he only needs to understand that by using them he is merely
brushing in more of the mental picture of how he can achieve this state of Alpha Man.

Without tactics and strategies to use, he becomes the Wanderer, likely to fall into the pit of
self-pity. He begins the path to the Dark Side —> He starts to fall back on the path of passive
easygoing Nice Guy. This false path is logical, after all, and nothing appeals more to a man’s mind
than logic. And so begins his downward spiral.

Think of it like this: Here’s a guy that’s going to school to be a carpenter. A teacher can teach
him all the skills he needs to measure, cut wood, sand it right, plane it, read the grain, chisel
and sculpt it, stain it, and so on. After several long years of study he will leave school with the
basics, the principles, but he will not have made them his OWN until he practices woodwork for a
while. He’ll have to spend many years figuring out the Art after he’s learned the Science. Once he
makes good woodwork, he’ll then get the confidence to try and do more unique things. It builds into
what I call the Upward Spiral.

But without that schooling, that learning of the science, he will be lucky to get anything more than
a hit-and-miss success rate. With much more miss than hit.

So our arguments over whether “direct” with one’s personality or not are pretty moot. Most guys are
going to do whatever they’re going to do, and a lot of the time with little understanding, morals,
or smarts. This is the guy that only presents this seduction material with the dry hope of scoring
from a “system” or a “plan.” I can’t control that from happening. He’s always out there lurking on
the fringe. I hope that he’ll wise up someday.

I’m only here for the intelligent guy who knows that his ego very often short-circuits his success,
and it is only through self-development that we can get rid of the insecurity so that he can combine
the Science with the Art. I teach the Path. The Path leads from the AFC from his state of despair
and ignorance to the Alpha Man.

And the Art of Seduction is really nothing more than building the confidence and self-esteem to
reveal his true personality, while understanding what REALLY does work to stimulate female
attraction.

So how does the AFC build this confidence?

By trying these techniques in the real world and seeing what works.

It may sound like circular reasoning, but it’s true. You can’t learn confidence. You only gain it
from shedding your insecure thinking – and that comes from taking action … and you only take
action when you’ve got enough confidence to take that risk of action once again.

The way to hop on this upward spiral is to have some Science to apply.

And then he gets to feel the reward of success deep down in his nervous system. This feeling is the
fertilizer that grows his continued sense of confidence.

So the moral of this story, brothers, is that we provide the moving conveyer of information that
feeds his upward spiral.

Only through repetition and practice – and courage to persist.

This is the Art of being the Alpha Man.

 

Stay Alpha
– Carlos Xuma