I was just thinking the other day about how my friend Greg attracts women all the time, and I was
mentally comparing what his approach was from mine in terms of why we’re successful. We’re both good
at chatting up women just about anywhere, and we are both fairly successful at getting more than our
fair share of … well, let’s call it female attention. We talked about this for a while, and then
it hit us both like a bolt of lightning…
Even though he and I were different in appearance, different in style, different in dress, etc., one
thing was actually the same. We both understood some principles of attracting beautiful women that
involve “calibration.” Flexibility for the situation.
So I got home and started recording some topics having to do with this area that I think will help
you guys understand how to adjust your approach to various situations.
Oh, and I got a lot of questions about certain activities you can do to really increase your comfort
level with women. So I decided I’d reveal an exercise I once used to get myself over my fear of
women. It’s called the “Poll” and any guy can use it. It really rocks. You can use it for cold
approaching women on the street, or even in a bar or club.
Not to mention I am also covering how the concept of social proof works with women (and people in
general) and how you use it to demonstrate your own superior social value (SSV) with women. SSV is
something I’m going to cover more in the next couple months, too. (I even threw in a ton of examples
of how to use negative hits effectively.)
So, rather than get long-winded here, I’m just going to tell you that Session 22 is HERE, and you
guys are going to LOVE it. I am going in-depth in these concepts and many more.
Take a quick look at the great stuff we’re covering in a few of the tracks in July’s Session-
Session 22 includes:
– CALIBRATION – How to adjust your approach for the various levels of women (classic “10” scale),
what’s happening when she won’t call back, how to compliment, and WHO to compliment, the GPP
complex, as well as what to expect from women at various levels of attrativeness…
– THE 2 LEVELS OF ATTRACTION – Emotional vs. Sexual, how much chemistry you must have versus
trust, what happens when you over involve her emotionally, why a woman slams on the brakes, how
negative hits work, and how you can use them effectively, with 8 examples of application
– EXERCISE – The Poll – How to double and triple the number of women you meet with your own
research, removing expectation, why it’s critical to memorize introductions and phrases, getting
yourself empowered, Ten Example questions for your poll, how to score yourself, the most important
way to express your interest in her, and tips on how to NEVER approach women on the street (chances
are you’re making these mistakes)…
– INFLUENCE – SOCIAL PROOF – How social proof works, the need for validation, examples of
sociological motivations of people, how a woman is motivated by social proof, Public compliance vs.
private acceptance, when social proof works the most …
– SELF-DISCIPLINE – What it is and how to develop it through action, application with your own
goals, working your phone list, examples of goals, the one critical ingredient to your motivation –
and why you will fail without it …
– AFTER THE SEX – How to choose your path after you’ve achieved your goals, qualitative vs.
quantitative criteria, how to setup expectations, why relationships develop you faster, why men lose
their game in long-term relationships, the two decisions you must make for each woman you date, and
the reason guys don’t want to date more than one woman even when they know they should…
Just in time for your holiday weekend, you can see the COMPLETE table of contents, and download the
July session here
Stay Alpha,
– Carlos Xuma