Thursday, May 24, 2007

I am a threat to most men...

Something I've noticed out there in the social strata is that I'm considered something of a threat in most of my social circles. A threat to the guys, that is.

Why is this?

Well, it comes from what other men feel when they're around a guy who commands the attention of the social structure in which he's inserted.

So my next sticking point is to not be so obvious with my social skill. I think the guys that find themselves most successful in the long run understand that the best game is the game that no one sees. You must be transparent and effortless in execution. (Note that I did not say "perfect" in execution.)

And, I guess you'd say that my social skill should always include a degree of tact that does not allow other guys to feel intimidated.

Every guy goes through this, especially when the other guys see the other women becoming attracted to you and they get jealous and start tooling you. It's human freaking nature, man. Get used to the pressure.

So, not only are you responsible for how others perceive you, but you're also responsible for how others see you through other people's reactions to you.


You bet.

But a lot of fun when you get the hang of it...

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