Do you want me to lie to you or help you?

Your newsletters have helped me a lot concerning the chicks. Quickly...to sum up There is a that girl who is really good looking. I knew her friend X and I had asked X to tell her I like her and would like to get her number. She said no but we could be friends.

After some time I somehow befriended her and later she gave X to give me her number. Fine I felt she was into me, i proposed after a week, she said no (X told told me she said it was too abrupt) I made it as if it didnt matter much and now. Later she told me she wants to be alone. She had someone in her life before.

A couple of times she told me to not expect anything from her. And the thing is I know she likes me. I know that!! She is into me. I dont understand that attitude. I know i generate some attraction inm her. She even told X she really likes me but she doesnt know why she bring it to the next level. May be its because of her ex??. I really want to get her (and others) . PLEASE tell me what should I do. ( dont tell me to move on please!)

I am waiting for your reply ...

Thank you,

A.
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CARLOS:

Well, let's start right out by setting something straight. You're telling me what advice NOT to give you?

That's balls, bro. Try that with your doctor the next time and see how well it goes over.

Here's the REALITY, and it is not going to bend over for you, no matter how hard you may want it to - or tell me not to tell you:

She's just not that into you!

I'm not trying to be mean. You simply didn't use my information to get her attracted correctly at the start.

Ask yourself this question:

If a woman doesn't ACT like she likes me, and she doesn't do the things that SHOW me she likes me, does she really like me?

No, she doesn't.

The reason she won't move forward is that she's not feeling ATTRACTION for you.

Think back to the last woman you liked that you found out liked you, too (before this gal.) Do you remember what you did about it?

Let me ask you this: Would you have stopped yourself from going after her if you really liked her?

No, you wouldn't. You would have said, "Cool!" and proceeded to go along.

So why would a woman SAY one thing and DO another?

This has been the dilemma of the centuries, which I have solved. I reveal the complete secret in The Dating Black Book. It's hard to cover it all here in the short space of my blog, but I'll give you a hint:

Wanting something with your LOGICAL mind is COMPLETELY different than wanting it with your EMOTIONAL heart.

Read that at least ten times. It's THAT important.

Her words are telling you what she THINKS, but that's worthless. A woman has to desire you with her emotions before she will act on it.

Otherwise, she's damaged goods. Any person that doesn't act on their healthy desires is usually emotionally crippled in some way. And it's not a way that you want to experience, dude.

Look the real problem here is wanting this woman as much as you do. I can smell it in your words. Hey, that's fine - we've all been there before.

But your case of One-itis is going to be a real problem for your attitude if you keep chasing women that you didn't do it right with.

You should also find my letter to the guy explaining the reasons why you don't want to try to "fix" it when this mistake has been made and she's already put you in the "friends" category. You're fighting reality, bro, and guess who's going to win?

If you want to know more about the Principle of Truth that I teach, download my e-book: The Dating Black Book.

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