Thursday, January 11, 2007

Better late than never...

Hi, Carlos,

I am getting into this whole seduction thing very late. I am over 50, have taken such good care of myself that I look 10 to 15 years younger. Never been married, but been through a broken engagement once. Have been through various relationships. Consider myself a very interesting person, with great hobbies like playing the guitar. Very solvent.

After getting into this seduction stuff a few months back, my self diagonsis is principally that I had been putting women on a pedestal. I have since lowered them, and together with all the other skills that I have acquired from reading and practicing your stuff, I see lots of changes in my life.

Question is, any suggestions on how to get around this age thing if I wish to date women much younger than me when this question comes up? Some women have an upper age limit, but I beileve my youthful looks will work until the question comes up. Any suggestions?


Yours,

K
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CARLOS:

The "age thing" is just that. A thing.

Meaning that it's PURELY a concept that exists in your head. You - like most guys, I might add - are very sensitive to their age and how other women perceive it.

The best approach is to keep yourself in good shape and well-groomed.

Don't ACT old.

Be young in spirit!

Also, ask yourself this question: Why do you want to date women that are so much younger than you?

Is it just because they're more physically attractive?

No problem.

But if you are seeking a long-term relationship, keep in mind that when you get a younger woman, you get all the problems of dating a person who is at a lower maturity level than you.

Trust me.

Been there, done that, bought the t-shirt, sold it to buy a prescription of Valium...

Some of these gals could drive a Buddhist monk into a psychopathic killing frenzy that would leave Charles Manson exhausted.

Be careful what you ask for! You just may get it... and more.

And here's a little nugget of Alpha Attitude for you guys out there that are also putting women up on a pedestal:

Instead of knocking them off, why not put yourself on a slightly higher pedestal?

Raise yourself UP instead of pushing them down...

Just another way of accomplishing the same goal, and keeping your dignity and strength in the process.

If you want the key to unlocking your Alpha Attitude, get the Secrets of the Alpha Man

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