SKEPTICAL?

Dear Carlos,

I was very skeptical of your approach, but I have been trying C & F routine recently and it has been working like a charm. An example of C & F happened recently. Women always make comments of my age and how I appear much younger than my age (I'm in my late twenties but appear to be 23-24). Before reading your e-book and listening to the CD's, I would simply laugh or say thank you if a woman said I looked a lot younger than my age.

Recently I was out with my friends and this good-looking woman said the same comment. My response was "come on, I'm not going to fall for a line that. You women just want me for my youthful looks". Then I continued busting on her and left with her e-mail. My friends were all shocked by my exchange with her and my success.

I have a question though Carlos. What if a woman, in the conversation with you, states she does not like a certain type of guy; for example she says she likes tall guys but one happens to be short.

Can you give be a couple of examples of turning a perceived deficit (height, lack of hair, etc) into Cocky and funny responses?

PCS. "Your program is a cure! I just love your prescribed medicine and the side effects (attractions) are awesome"

Thanks a trillion,

R
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CARLOS:

In this situation I usually bust on them with reality.

"So you've NEVER dated a short guy? EVER?"

"Well, a few times..."

"So it wasn't really about their being short, was it? It was about having the right attitude?" And I start nodding here.

OR

You can use this to disqualify her...

"You know that's too bad..."

She says: "What? Why?"

"Well, I generally don't judge people by their appearances. I look deeper into what makes them a loving person. I mean, beauty is common. Look around you. What if I said I didn't date women who blink a lot?" (It doesn't matter if she does, let her be a little self-conscious.)

"I'm not sure I can hang with you." Shake your head at her. Don't let her think you're joking OR serious.

Remember: the key to "Handling" women in these (and just about any situation where she's testing your reality) is to come from such a strong and confident frame that what she thinks is really irrelevant.

And if you want to learn the advanced methods of handling the approach with style and power, you need my Approach Women NOW program

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