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Dear Carlos:

Congratulations on your work.

I have a question.

While on dates, in restaurants, I have noticed that often a woman will offer to give me or even feed me some of her food.

From a woman's perspective,what does this mean?And what is she trying to communicate?Should I accept or reject the food?

Second,should I also offer some of my food to her in return?

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CARLOS:

This is a great question...

When a woman offers you some of her food, she's doing several things:

1) Extending trust - She wouldn't share it with you if she wasn't feeling some connection

2) Being hospitable - If she's feeling comfortable, she'll also want to oblige you with a taste - especially if you're the one paying. (I've noticed this quite frequently when I was the one paying for the grub...)

3) Some would say she's sharing her sustenance as a primal gesture of connection - kind of like "you brought home the hunt, let's share." I don't know if I'd go that far, but it COULD mean interest on her part.

Mostly, it's a good sign. Most women wouldn't share if they were feeling negatively about you. Just don't read too much into it. Not everything is a signal.

And, yes, share the food. Reciprocity is good policy.

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