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CARLOS XUMA and Dating Dynamics
Women have shared information
since time began on how to rule the world of relationships, through sexual
power and an innate understanding of psychology and persuasion. Men need
an ally in this game, and I created Dating Dynamics to
give you that edge.
A lot of guys ask me how I got into this field of dating
advice for men, so let me give you a little background...
I started out as a "natural." Yeah,
that's the kind of guy you hate - the one that has no problem with women.
When I was in my early 20's, I had a naturally funny and
teasing attitude with women, and my early successes had me feeling pretty cocky
with my ability. And as a result, I had a lot of confidence
with women.
Until disaster struck.
I had a relationship that turned
sour on me, and I started getting all "Nice Guy." I started reading
the self-help books by PhD.s that didn't know dick about how REAL attraction is built. They could only tell you
that it should be this way, and all the rational crap that did NOT work. (Like
telling a woman your true feelings for her.)
I remember being on a date where the girl actually pulled
away when I went to hug her good night. I remember losing it on my balcony
after they left, and I swore that I'd never go through that again.
I knew there was some kind of behavioral change I could make
to fix this. I had to know how to make women attracted
to me, or it was going
to kill me.
I started reading all the books
in the bookstore on the topic. When I realized they didn't have the information
I needed (or even a clue for guys, really), I started looking for books that
talked about "pickup,"
"seduction,"
and "techniques" - the forbidden information that
you couldn't find anywhere else.
(I started this before there was
an "Internet," mind
you. :)
When I got as much as I could find (and that wasn't a lot)
I started trying and experimenting with women and dating. I got rejected and
blasted, and occasionally I also got some success. I watched why certain guys
did the things they did and noticed how their behavior influenced and built
strong attraction in women.
I have spent years and years out there getting battered,
deep-fried, and served up as a meal ticket in the world of dating, and there's
no reason why any guy should have to go through that. That's why I create these
programs for men - and just started creating programs for women.
I wrote these books and CD and DVD programs, and then crammed
them full of information that is practical, useful, and REAL.
None of that "buy
her roses/write her poems/tell her how you feel" crap.
I teach men how
to attract women by being themselves - the confident
and dominant men that really get women. I teach from a place of values and honor, and I'm proud to
say that my material doesn't rely on manipulation or tricks to get you more
dates and more women in your life.
Ask yourself: Do you want to wind up in your rocking chair
whining about all the things you should have done?
You only get one shot at this life, so seize
this opportunity.
It's time to start winning.
Invest in yourself and learn the
strategies and mindset that will make you successful not just with women
but in LIFE."
I salute you for the step you're about to take. I can honestly
say that learning how to get this part of my life under my control has been
the biggest step in my development as a man. And now you can get the benefit
of this information, too.
If you're going to start with one program, I suggest you
look at The Dating Black Book. This one e-book has changed thousands of men's
lives - and now you can learn the basic strategies for
attracting women into
your life.
Carlos Xuma is a dating and attraction advisor, as well as a motivational
and life counselor. He's the author of The Dating Black
Book, Secrets of the
Alpha Man, Approach Women NOW, the Alpha
Immersion DVD program, the Advanced
Audio Coaching Series (in its fourth year), and too many other articles to
mention. He also produces a weekly podcast (available on iTunes) and a regular
newsletter.
Carlos brings to the table a variety of life experiences, including a background
in relationship skills, life-coaching, motivational psychology, sales, management,
Martial Arts, teaching and instruction, technology and engineering, Eastern
philosophy, the psychology of achievement, and music.
Yes, you can call him a bit of a Renaissance
Man.
Carlos' mission is to bring men and women together through awareness of both
our traditional and contemporary gender roles. He conducts workshops and in-field
training sessions, phone counseling, as well as group seminars.
Carlos
Xuma's dating tips and advice are seen in:
The Dating Insider Book
Cliff's List
The MothaB Show
Seduction Insider
Don Juan Center
Dating Newsletter
Single Again
Dating Class
Click
here to hear an important message from Carlos Xuma:
"All truth passes
through three stages. First, it is ridiculed. Second, it is violently
opposed. Third, it is accepted as being self-evident."
- Arthur Schopenhauer
German philosopher (1788 - 1860)
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