Wednesday, March 29, 2006

Will "The Game" bust yours?

Well, I just have a question that I've been pondering for some time. I recently purchased Neil Strauss's "The Game", and I find it to be amazingly fascinating. It has opened my eyes to the world of pickup dramatically and givin me a new outlook on the whole "Game".

My question though is it seems like all the beans have been spilled and it just seems like now that the book is being exposed to the public and the pickup community is getting bigger by day, that all this stuff will be useless after some time. I mean whats your take on this Carlos? And do you think this book is good for the pickup community or not?

P. S - Its amazing the amount of dedication and time Neil spent going after his goal of becoming the best PUA today, I never knew it takes that much hard work to be that good in the game. This book has opened my eyes quite alot.
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CARLOS:

Nothing is good or bad, but thinking makes it so.

In other words, if you think it will be bad, you'll create the evidence (and the reality) that it is, in fact, bad.

If you believe it will be good, it will be good.

What I think will happen is this:

- Some guys will read it and think, "Wow. Great stuff. Now if I could just do this... but wait! Every guy out there is going to be doing this! I'm too late to do this."

And they completely miss the train because they were LOOKING for an excuse to not do anything. These are the guys that don't get much accomplished in their life because they're addicted to their struggle. Adios.

- Some guys will read this and over-use the word-for-word approaches and strategies. BIG MISTAKE. Because some guys already are doing this, and yes they are getting blown out like never before.

And they DESERVE to. Mindlessly reciting lines you read in a book is the hallmark of a lazy mind. At least have the originality to recycle this material into a more original way, something that doesn't sound like what everyone else is using.

- Some guys will read this stuff and have the sense to tailor it to their own style. Because, to answer your question, the principles are the most important part, and they will not change. What works, will work. You'll just have to recycle it and do it more AUTHENTICALLY. (Part of my new R.E.A.L. Game, by the way.)

Look, everyone out there knows that if you eat right and exercise, you will be healthy. You'll lose weight.

It's known, right?

But still, most people don't do it.

Why?

LAZINESS.

I could hand someone the deed to a diamond mine and they'd stay poor because they don't understand how to motivate themselves to unlock this power. They wouldn't be able to find the energy to dig for the diamonds.

Good for the guys that use this information and understand how it works.

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