How To THINK Like An Alpha Male - No more scarcity
Your dating materials are WORTH THEIR WEIGHT IN GOLD!!! I seriously have improved my skills with women because of you man! Thank you SO MUCH! I wasn't too bad with women to begin with honestly. I have good outer game, but my inner game is what I need to work on.
I somehow manage to get obsessed with one woman and try to hard, which just ends up screwing things up for me. Thankfully, I have learned what NOT to do now thanks to your materials.
Anyway, here is my situation. I have been dating this girl for about 3 1/2 months now, but I feel as though I'm beginning to lose her interest and attraction for me. She has been blowing me off lately, AND she has been hanging out with this other guy lately a bunch who likes her.
I'm a Naval Officer about to move to Pensacola for flight school, and I think this is why she isn't taking me as seriously as she would if I wasn't moving away. I don't want things to end with her. What should I do to make her WANT me to be her boyfriend??? PLEASE HELP BRO!!!
CARLOS XUMA ANSWERS:
Well, I'm going to be honest that even if you managed to "keep" her, you'd still be out of the picture when you go to flight school, so I would not get into this scarcity mindset right now. You're thinking from the "I'm losing her" mindset, which makes you the needy one.
When you're not around physically, it's going to be tough for you to create the kind of locked-in attraction that you need to keep her faithful while you're away. If she's already hanging with another guy, your exit visa is all but stamped, my friend.
You could keep her, but it would be futile the second you wave to her from the plane.
What you really need to do is this: YOU be the one to break it off with her.
Dude, you're in the military. Your uniform alone is going to score you more tail than you can imagine.
You also need to start sending the right messages to your subconscious mind, and by YOU being the one to end it, you are the one in control. You affirm your own power and might, and your own ability to lead.
If you can't break it off with a woman when it's necessary, no matter your feelings, you will probably end up back in that addicted state again.
YOU control your emotional state. Self-discipline!
When you fight the inevitable, you take a toll on your attitude.
You can stay in touch with her, but don't get one-itis with her. It's not worth it.
Get back to reading my materials again. You need to review them and really understand the Alpha Mindset.
You're in a world of abundance.
Start acting like it! :)