Whoah! Not manly? It's actually ALPHA manly!

hi, I read your book and I really enjoy it. I think it's one of the greatest books I ever read it. After I read it I sayd to myself that I had to do something, to take action. I started to make some lists with things I like/don't like, what I should change about me, what I think that is good and wrong, my principles about life, etc but I got stuck at the beginig.Man, I think this list writing it's sort of not manly. I think it's something that a women does not a man. It's like some sort of fucking Oprah therapy in my opinion. But I also heard that this things worked for many guys. I guess it's just hard for me to write down these things.

I want to tell me your opinion. If I do this thing it will work? or I will fall on some "express your feelings and be a girly man" sort of thing... I hope you give me advice on this. I am not saying I wouldn't do it I just say I think it's sort of not manly.

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CARLOS:
It sounds as if you're a little hung up on this "manly" thing. I think I detect a little gender insecurity - and maybe insecurity in your own sexuality. List writing is one of the most important traits of almost every successful man in history. Why would you say that this is "Oprah therapy?" Being able to realize your inner workings and motivations allows you to control your destiny instead of being another ship afloat in the ocean of life.

Just don't get caught up in the process of self-exploration. THAT is where a lot of guys get too touchy-feely, in my opinion. Unless you've got some agonizing trauma in your past, leave your inner child alone.

Remember the inscription above the doorway to the Oracle in "The Matrix"?

Tenet Noscere.

KNOW YOURSELF.
Trust me, my friend ... I do not put men on trips to feminine destinations. Have you read the title of my program?Secrets of the ALPHA MAN.
Not "Secrets of the Wussy He-Chick."In my program, I detail the traits that make an Alpha Man the next likely step in the evolution of men everywhere.
You see, women don't need men for the things they once did. We need to incorporate the best of our past attractive skills (which most men have sadly lost due to being raised in single-parent (mom) families) and the best of our new requirements:

- Cunning
- Social Savvy
- Emotional intelligence

Among many others.

You know what ISN'T "manly"?

Growing.

An Alpha Man who is secure in his masculinity is willing to do whatever he needs to in order to improve himself.

As you grow and develop your awareness of yourself, you won't fall into "girly man" behaviors, unless that's what you want.

Your behavior isn't some kind of slippery slope that you'll fall into, and POOF, you'll wake up a year from now a gay guy or something.

YOU control your behavior. Through intent and belief.

So get that paper out and start making lists. Start with a list of your goals for yourself, of the kind of man you want to be.

And then go after it.

The best way (and one that countless men have found to work for them) is to get the Secrets of the Alpha Man.

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