How do you handle a woman that is dishonest or lying to you?
Now the question..
I am with this girl Mary, now from the start of this she already had a boyfriend but I got past that thanks to you ... I have a feeling she is still seeing him. Now her interest in me is not a question, but the dishonesty when shes with him is bothering me...
Carlos what would an Alpha Male do in this situation? I think confrontation would just be a chickens way out of competition.
Actually, her interest in you is very much in question.
Women, by their nature, are monogamous. They prefer one stable boyfriend than a stable of boyfriends.
This is not the case if:
1) She is young and has a lot of sexual energy to play with...
2) She is unstable ...
3) She is not getting everything she needs (i.e., Alpha Man with confidence AND ability to provide) in one package
If you were what she needed all around, she would drop this guy faster than the television ratings for the Super Bowl post-game show.
You are filling a role for her, and it's not complete.
You're right in not creating a confrontation over it. You'd only show her that you're emotionally incapable, and probably insecure, too.
The reality here is that you need to be looking out for your own needs. If she's still getting some on the sly from this guy, she's probably not going to make you her primary caregiver until she feels:
1) You're able to fulfill ALL her needs
2) You're able to effectively communicate that she is missing out on #1 if she doesn't act quick and grab you up before some other woman gets you.
And the trick of this is that you cannot communicate #2 with WORDS.
You communicate it through Alpha Man ATTITUDE.
The other trick of this is that if YOU ask her to be your one and only, you'll never know for sure if it was something she wanted. And she would always wonder if she should have.
Let the woman have the pleasure of wanting to catch you. It's her favorite part of the game, and you can't take it away from her.
Right now, the best you can do is to go out and see other women yourself.
And if, in any way, this girl has represented herself to be seeing only you, and you suspect otherwise, you must pass along the consequences.
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Secrets of the Alpha Man