Thursday, July 20, 2006

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CARLOS!! I did something that I'm pretty proud of, and really, all I did was step in shit! Check it out:
 
Some time ago I went to my local bar and at the end was a cute blonde I never saw there before. I order my beer and immediately sit next to her. She was watching SportsCenter on ESPN and I instantly use it as my opening line, "Did they mention the Mets score?"
 
"Yes, I believe they said they lost 6-7...I'm just looking for the Yankees score."
 
"Yankees? Feh, I can see we're not going to get along...you have a lot to learn."
 
And so it went on for a while. It was pleasant conversation, laughing, general topics, she really wasn't the end all be all for me, but I used the opportunity to work on my delivery, and technique. She excused herself to leave because of work in the morning- she can tell that I was a regular because during the conversation many people walked up to me to say hi. We exchanged names, and she mentioned "Maybe we'll run into each other again, you frequent this bar right?"
 
"From time to time yes, have a nice night."
 
And that was it.
 
This is the cool part. About a week and a half ago, I go to the bar and there she is ordering drinks for her and her sister. She introduces me to her sister, and mentions that she will be sitting at a table, come join them. I order my drink, say hello to some friends, and join them. I work on my two-set technique, chatting her sister and occasionally directing attention to my target, competive IOI's abound. It's all good fun--at one point her sister looks to me and asks "is this a topic you usually bring up to other girls?" To which I pause, look at her (pleasantly),  and continue with the subject (thanx for that tidbit from Secrets of the Alpha Man, Carlos. There was a time I would've fumbled right then, but your ebook really prepared me for that pitfall and many other "tests" they tried--it truly is a "game".)
 
Eventually, my target excuses herself to go to the bathroom, and as she leaves I turn to her sister and mention "your sister is adoreable." I could've used "hot" or "cute" or "pretty", but I chose a word to describe her personality rather than her looks. Worked like a charm. The sister goes on to tell me what a great girl she is, how giving and sweet, etc. When my target returns I notice the drinks were low, and since my target bought me a drink (first that ever happened to me), I excused myself to order another round. It was an opportunity for the girls to talk, and I noticed as I returned my target takes control of the pleasantries. Her sister eventually leaves us alone. Go figure! What was a simple compliment turned into a way for my targets sister to become my wingman! Her sister even took the initiative to get my targets business card and write her phone number and email address for me! Talk about pre-selection!
 
I can't tell you the world of difference your book and cd's have done for me. I am so much more comfortable in my skin, and what started as a way to never let what my ex-wife did to me happen again, has turned into a world of abundance.
 
I have to jet now, tomorrow I leave for a weekend in Conneticut with a paralegal I met sometime ago, and I have some things that I need to do first.
 
Thanx again, you da man!
 
~Tribal

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CARLOS:

If there's one part of this I want you to "get" it's this:

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and I instantly use it as my opening line"

If you don't know why, take a look HERE




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