Another Field Report - Another Success

Well it happened again. Here I was in a bad mood, sick, pissed off my wingman stood me up, and facing some inner turmoil about myself and the game (basically fighting off guilt others would impose upon me for being able to live this lifestyle.) I was moody and lonely, but as you taught in the seminar: GET OUT OF THE HOUSE. So I got up, got ready, called a cab, and was heading to a local bar, but the cab driver convinced me to go downtown. (He wanted more money).

I get downtown and wanted to go to a quieter, slower place for a few drinks to warm up. I ended up in a strip club for my drinks as I figured it'd put me in the mood, as well as relax me as I had some drinks. It did do the trick, and I was off to the popular night club Barracuda. I arrive and have some more drinks. At first I'm thinking the night was going to be a bust (inner game conditions were less than ideal considering my mood, turmoil, loneliness, etc).

I also was flying solo without a wingman this time. However I got myself to strike up a conversation with a gal who had sat at my table. She was boring so I approached her friend like you tell us to in the books and Approach program. I simply noticed she had a pink wrist band that though I had an idea what it was (a VIP band) I still wasn't sure about, so I walked up, tapped her arm to get her attention, and asked her what it was. She replies, "Want to dance?" I agree and we do. Next I isolate her by telling her let's go have a drink.

Now I DID buy women some drinks, but.....before you lash out on me about not doing that, I didn't do it with the expectation of getting something for it. Not from the frame of a nice guy. I chose what she was going to have and ordered it FOR her each time. (Long island iced teas as I know they're strong and women like the mixed drink taste.) I know when my targets have a good buzz going, they're more likely to go further. So we sit and talk, and I ended up going for the kiss. But it was after that time either because it was too much for her too soon, or when I said I had seen her outside of the club before we got in, but she lost interest.

I had lost that one so as you tell us NEXT! I started macking on her friend...kissed her. Went to another friend... This was working for me because I appeared to have social proof without KNOWING anyone there. Here I am mingling with all of these people, and I came alone. I even met a couple other guys and introduced them to these girls.
  
   Now the fun part came after I ditched the other friend. I saw my final target of the evening. She was standing there looking sort of lost/confused, so I grabbed her by the arm and said, "We're going to go dance." We hit the dance floor, then I isolated her back to my favorite spot (the booth tables on the other side of the bar.) Ran the usual on her, teasing and flirting. We shared a drink.

Her friend came and tried to block, but I just ignored the friend and kept my target distracted so that the friend just got tired of waiting and walked off. We started making out, so I took her hand and said "Let's get out of here." We went outside, and she began to hesitate, but then the bouncers stopped letting anyone in so we walked off. (Now she even went to the club with friends, but I somehow got her away from them that we didn't encounter them anymore that night.) After some lesson in patience with getting her into a cab, we were off. I got her to my place, had her take her shoes off (as we always do in my home). Poured her another drink which we never finished. Took her upstairs and it was all downhill from there.
  
I know that you aren't a huge fan of ONS, but I am learning that girls in fact DO want them. Sure it would be tiring for someone starting out in the game to go after them as you mention in the Seduction Method, but once you get good at it, it's easy.

A key note is not really having sex as an end goal in mind when you go out. I'm prepared to walk away with a number if needs be, but because of the environment of a club, social rules change and you CAN escalate quicker to kissing and touching.

So what I'm learning is that it is really about doing what you know attracts her: teasing, touch, escalation in the right amounts at the right time, and knowing when to move to the next stepping stone.
  
   What has happened with me Carlos? This is crazy! I owe a lot of my change to your Secrets of the Alpha Man program. Once I had the right attitude, it is like "LOOK OUT LADIES." And now when one isn't interested in me, it is her loss. Who cares? NEXT!

And P.S. just in case some feminist crusader of a man thinks it is disrespectful to seduce women and have a ONS, remember that THEY want sex as much as we do.

As long as you are both consenting, and it isn't done by lying or deception, all is fair in love and war.

Until next time C-man! AMP IT UP!
  
  
M in Oregon

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CARLOS:

I may have been too harsh in my discussion of guys and one night stands. I don't have anything against them. What I don't want is a bunch of guys seeking ego improvement through notching their bedposts.

However, you are ABSOLUTELY right that women also want the option of one night stands as well. What a man must provide is the safe conditions for her to indulge in her own wants. Be honorable, and it's all good.

After a while, though, what every guy realizes is that he will eventually want something more challenging after the ability to get what you want has paid off.

That's the irony of choice.

If you want more choice in your love life, and the ability to create more fun and success in your ENTIRE life, then I encourage you to have a look at the Secrets of the Alpha Man.

See how these guys have improved theirs HERE

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