So I was talking with a gal "friend" of mine lately, and I found out a short story about a guy who came to her office selling knives. What she said about his approach was very accurate and I wanted to share it with you guys so you understand just how important your masculine attitude is.
Don't hide your interest in a woman. There are times to pull back and disqualify her, but this is the kind of thing I'm talking about. She said:
"I was impressed by his poise, confidence and rather steamy unapologetic masculinity."
WOW! That says it right there.
Steamy, unapologetic masculinity. I think the most important word is the "unapologetic."
Too many guys are running around out there ashamed of their desires and needs.
Now, here's her description of how this guy handled checking out her body:
"He followed me upstairs to my office, as we climbed the stairs I felt his eyes on my derriere, I swung around to catch him in the act and he didn't flinch!
"I waited at the top of the stairs to see if he would have that "caught in the act look," but he looked me straight in the eyes- with a sort of knowing nod. I made a mental note- glad I was wearing tight jeans. Wow, I thought, this is going to be an interesting presentation...
"Chris pulled his chair fairly close to mine, so close our knees almost
touched. There wasn't any room on my desk for his presentation so he politely asked if he could move my boxes. Before I said yes, he quickly cleared half my desk! His finesse and timing was impeccable, I was a little stunned by that move, and half expected to be swept up along with my boxes. OK. He now had my full attention. His demonstration was brilliant. He kept eye contact with me throughout the entire presentation..."
Now this guy knows he's obviously got it going on, and isn't ashamed to let a woman know it.
There's a lot to be learned from his attitude.