RAW DATING ADVICE:

Hey big boy, your Black Book is the F*****'n bomb. pulling chicks over the side (away from their friends) is a very effective strategy & you know the thing of taking a babe on a date to a place where she is known ..... it worked for me.


Keep it up, your advice is live and "RAW" and I believe in it beacause its workin for me. right now you know, there is this honey that I really luv an am obsessed with. I spoke to her and she sounded rather unsure (I think I havent earned her trust yet) her best friend is my brother's girlfriend and am told the chick has never had a boyfriend and she also told my brother's girl that she is not ready for a relationship.

Worse still, my closest friend betrayed me and is countering me on this girl. I think he's told her a few lies about me so she cannot trust my love for her.

Carlos, I need to win this girl for the first reason that am in love with her, and for the second reason that a want to come out the ALPHA MALE over my mate (Sorry I have to do this to him but he did me first) I want to play a smart game and win this chick smooth. Point is, I need some advice here.

M.P

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CARLOS:


First of all, NEVER call me "Big Boy..." (Unless you're a gal watching me release my Thick-o-saurus from my boxers...)

- shudder -

I had this vision of a gang of sailors waiting for me in an alley. "Hey, Big Boy! Where you going?"

cuh-ree-pee....


I’ll tell you right now that the problem is this: “there is this honey that I really luv an am obsessed with” and "I need to win this girl for the first reason that am in love with her"

If you’re obsessed with her, you can’t have her. You’ll freak her out and drive her off with the intensity of your attention.

What you need to do is to date at least five other women before you go after this one. That will lower this intense level of desperation that I hear in your voice.

And you are most definitely NOT in "love" with her. Guys make the mistake of thinking that lust = love. Love is a mature emotion that is three-dimensional. Powerful. Life-changing.

Lust is just what makes your pants fit smaller when you think about her naughty bits.

Make sense?

You most certainly need to review my e-books to save you. Get past this fantasy that you've cultivated in your head for her. You can't love someone you don't even know. Your feelings are based on vapors... a mirage that you created in your own skull.


Oh, and get rid of your “closest friend.” He’s betrayed you, and he’s obviously not loyal.

Alpha Men are honorable above all else.

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