What Women Want - 8 Things She's Looking For...
I like to ask this question of every
woman I meet: "So what do women want? REALLY?"
And I'm always guaranteed a variety
of answers.
Well today I have the response of a
woman who actually put her thoughts down on paper and shared
them with me.
In Melanie's words, here's what women want (or click play for the video):
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Ah, the age-old question: What do we
want?
Honestly, half the time we don’t
even know, but there are some definite concrete characteristics
we look for. This is what women want:
1) Be considerate. Be polite. Be a
gentleman.
Now, this
does not necessarily mean hold the door, pull out the chair,
or bring flowers. It means listen to what she’s saying
and be interested (hold the yawns). Don’t interrupt!
Many people feel the need to relate with what the opposite
sex is saying, but don’t rush it. Wait until she’s
done speaking before you add in where you grew up, where
you went to college, where you like to have sex. Listen
and then speak.
The huge bonus comes when you remember
her favorite band or food, and then surprise her a few
dates later by taking her to that concert or restaurant.
2) We like confidence. Confidence
is sexy.
Cockiness, arrogance, and being a general
dickhead is not. Know what you want. Have goals. Please
have a job.
3) Okay, I know a lot of guys
will cringe when they see this next word: sensitivity.
No, I
don’t
mean you have to cry at the movie or let us know you really
have a deep connection with your kitten.
Don’t be
a pussy. When I say sensitive, I mean be sensitive to what
she wants. If she’s having a bad day and is ranting
on about it, she probably just wants to vent. She most
likely doesn’t
want your advice unless she explicitly asks for it. This
also goes hand in hand with characteristic #1.
4) Be a manly man…or
as manly as you can be.
You don’t
have to own a pickup or have bulging biceps. Know how to
change oil…or at least check it.
Know how to unclog
a drain or put a piece of furniture together. We like guys
who can fix stuff (or at least act like they can…until
they secretly look up the directions).
5) Yeah, women like to be independent…to
a certain extent.
Don’t tell us what to wear, but
tell us we look nice in whatever we choose.
We like thinking
that we can do it all (even though we can’t) BUT
knowing your man will always back you up is a definite
plus. Give us a chance to try it ourselves first before
leaping to our aid. This also goes with characteristic
#6:
6) Don’t be too available,
at least at first.
There is nothing that turns a woman
off faster than a guy who always answers his phone or returns
a text in a minute’s
time. Have a life. If you don’t, pretend you do.
It just makes us wonder why you haven’t been picked
up already, and we start to think…what’s wrong
with this guy? Ohhh, right. He’s too needy.
7) Be open-minded.
Guys who are too
particular or who immediately shut down a woman’s
date ideas aren’t going
to last. It means we have to try too hard, and no one likes
that, right?
Being picky isn’t always a bad thing,
but being too selective is boring and after a few dates
it probably won’t last.
8) Have some good, solid relationships.
They can be with family, friends, or
co-workers, it doesn’t
really matter, as long as there is trust, communication
and loyalty involved. Seeing you’re capable of this
very satisfying, and it makes us put you into the Potential
Future category.
Now, every woman is different, obviously, but most of us
do want the same core attributes in a guy. This doesn’t
mean being fake or pretending to be someone you’re
not.
No woman wants that, and why would
any guy want to try to keep up that charade? Be yourself,
but just be mindful of a few of these traits.
To your success with women,
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What do you think? Did she hit it on the head - or miss
the mark on what women want?
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