DATING
TIPS FOR GUYS: SPECIAL REPORT
The
Secret Dark Side of Women…
This article might get me in some DEEP trouble...
In fact, the last time I exposed
something like this in my dating tips for guys, I got
a LOT of hate mail from some women who didn't like that
I was telling tales "out
of school."
But the funny thing is that
there were just
as many women who wrote in
and thanked me for exposing these secrets.
Because it's something they WANT men
to know about. And to help guys stop making a BIG mistake
because of their misinformation.
I'm going to expose some deep
dark secrets of women here
that I want you to know about. This isn't theory or idle
speculation.
It's the real deal. No hype.
Way back in 2001, when I first
started giving dating tips for guys, I made it my priority
to give guys the Truth about women and dating. Even if
it meant that I was being "politically
incorrect."
After all, it's that political "correctness" that
stops guys from getting the REAL information out there
about this topic.
Mostly because the reality of how our emotions work and
how attraction is created is not something we like to think
is out of our 'rational' control.
Well, you wanted to learn some juicy stuff about women,
didn't you?
Let's get into it...
Essential Dating Tips for Guys:
THE SECRET "DARK SIDE" OF WOMEN
SECRET #1: Women LOVE s*e*x.
Yes, I know you probably think
that women aren't all that into doing the nasty with you,
but that's a false assumption.
You see, we men believe that
because we put it out there and pursue "it," and women only seem to protect "it," we
are the ones that enjoy it more.
Not so, grasshopper.
If you've ever watched a woman
in the throes of ecstasy, you'll notice that she gets everything
stronger, longer, deeper, and ... well, MORE. Sex ROCKS
for women.
Honestly, I'm jealous of what
women get from it.
Sorry, guys. When a woman gets that motor started, she's
unbelievable.
Women have quite a bit more
of their anatomy dedicated to sex, and not to mention that
their pleasure is felt mostly through their brain circuits
wired for just this activity. We guys only have a small
tremor compared to their 7.9 earthquake on the Richter
scale.
The key here is to realize that
even though she wants "it" at
least as much, she is also hard-wired to not just give
it away. One mistake on her part and she's got a 9-month
body roommate that will take another 18 years of her life.
So women have evolved to be very
careful about their choice
in guys.
They simply have a better conscious
control over their coupling than guys do, and we mistake
that to mean that they are "frigid" or uninterested
in physical pleasure.
SECRET #2: Women are NOT angels. And they are suffocating
under the weight of this social expectation.
The common view in society is
that girls are "sugar
and spice" and everything nice, while boys are "snips
and snails and puppy dog tails."
Get the feeling we got the short end of the stick on this
one?
The social reality has always
been that women protect their image and their s*exuality
as a means to keep their power over men.
What's going on behind the
scenes is
something quite different.
Women can be just as ruthless,
mean, and vindictive as men.
I'm not going to get political on you here, but you do
need to know that this image of women as pure and clean
as the driven snow is something that many women tire of
and long for escape from.
Next Halloween, take a look at the choices that women
have in costumes. They're either really slutty, or really
proper.
But which costumes do you see women enjoying wearing the
most?
That's right...
The Naughty Girls.
The more you can show a woman that you are aware of this
double-standard, that you know better, and you can liberate
her from it, the happier she will be.
SECRET #3: Women cheat. A LOT.
This is one that most women are going to be writing in
(I know I've got some spies on my mailing list) and screaming
at me about.
But the reality is that even
though you hear about men being the "dogs," and
that we will just jump in bed with a hot woman at the
first opportunity...
The reality is that women have
all that opportunity available to them all
the time. They
don't have to work at it.
If a woman wants to get a little
piece of "strange" for
herself, it's not hard.
And even though women have
the social stigma of being viewed as a "slut," they
know that they are sexual creatures, and they have needs
just like guys do.
And if that guy isn't doing
it for her, she WILL get her
satisfaction somewhere.
You'll hear a lot of rationalization
about why she did it, and she might even believe some of
the stuff she tells herself, but she's just as vulnerable
to her desires as we are.
The fact is that women
are just much better at keeping secrets than men are. After
all, it can be an ego boost to brag with the guys, but
women want to maintain that "angelic" image.
Now, I'm not coming down on women here. In the grand scheme
of things, I don't believe that men are any more or less
good than women are.
It's important that you don't get a bunch of smoke blown
around about what the TRUTH is on this, too.
SECRET #4: Women want you to approach them.
This one is the one that kicks my butt every time. You
see, most guys don't believe this, and a lot of guys don't
WANT to believe it.
First of all, I have conducted surveys of women, as well
as spoken to women in just about every situation imaginable,
and there is a big misunderstanding here about what women
want.
This is what guys assume:
"If I see an attractive
woman when I'm out during the day, I want to meet her.
But I'm pretty sure she's busy, and I'll just be a bother
to her. She's obviously doing stuff and in a hurry. I
don't want to annoy her."
The problem here comes when we make the assumption without
VALIDATING it. We never check in to see if it's real.
Most guys will not approach because of this belief.
And the one guy in a thousand that DOES approach her goes
in with this belief in his head, and his approach is weak
and half-hearted. He doesn't carry himself with any confidence.
Ask yourself: Do you believe that women are bothered when
men approach and talk to them?
Before you do anything else, I want you to read this.
I asked a very attractive Asian
girl what her experience with guys approaching her was:
I asked: How frequently do guys approach you?
She
said: "This week
I'd say 0 guys approached. They showed interest but ...
weren't able to turn it into a conversation..."
I asked: How many wanted to approach but didnt?
She
said: "Percentage-wise,
I'd say 95%."
WOW...!
Interesting, huh?
Now, I know that a lot of guys
will hear that and say, "Well
that's just ONE woman. Most women don't feel that way."
Nope.
Sorry.
This is true for every woman
I've ever talked to.
Here are the facts from a recent
survey:
41% of the
women I asked said that they are only annoyed at guys
when they're boorish and crude...
36% said
they are almost always flattered by the approach...
22% said
they were excited and happy to meet someone new.
And - get this -
0% (ZERO!) said
that they are annoyed all the time when guys approach
them.
I also asked them:
If you do go to bars, would you go to a bar to meet guys?
Or something else?
35% said
they went to have fun, but there was a possibility to
meet someone...
65% said
they don't really go to bars to meet men. They go to
socialize and chill.
And - get this -
0% said they go to bars to meet men.
I personally think that every
woman goes to bars with that hope in the back of her head
that she will meet a guy, but it's not the primary reason
she goes.
Women want men to approach them
- and especially during the day - because most of the
quality women don't go to bars to "pickup" guys.
In fact, here are some of the
things women have told me when I asked them, "What
would you say to guys who are out there and see a woman
they want to talk to?"
- "Just
do it - be a man - take the risk..."
- "Suck it up and go for it!"
- "Just be yourself; don't worry about the perfect
pick-up line."
- "Do it the worst thing that can happen is she said
no But, what if she is interested..."
- "PLEASE approach me because most of the time I am
assuming that if you do not initiate a conversation, you
are not available..."
- "Go for it, there's nothing to lose..."
That's
a pretty big kick in the butt to get going and do it, isn't
it?
But I have to admit, there's not a lot of helpful advice
in their words.
"Just do it" is a great slogan for sneakers,
but if you could just "do it," you would be doing
it, right?
Well, a while back I sat down
with some friends of mine that are dating advisers and "gurus," and
I recorded all my strategies for approaching women in
any situation.
AND I completely broke down and explained my method for
getting past Approach Anxiety.
That sick-to-your-stomach sensation of fear and nerves
that hits you when you see a woman you want to go talk
to... but you can't...
... but you REALLY want to...
... and you still can't...
... but you really want to get to meet her, and you know
you HAVE to...
... and you STILL can't do it.
It's like a bouncer is holding your arms and legs and
every time you start to move towards her, you freeze up
and become paralyzed.
And the worst part about it?
You know that YOU are doing this to yourself.
It's time to get rid of this sensation once and for all.
Kill your approach anxiety, and learn the specific things
to say and DO to approach women whenever and wherever you
can.
Go take a look at the video I've posted here with a preview
of what you will learn:
Your friend,
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