Do You Want To Attract Women and Get More
- Carlos Xuma
I had a chance to watch a movie on DVD that I think you guys should take
a look at to understand a little about how seduction works, and how being
an Alpha Man is necessary to attract women. It's called "Unfaithful," and
it stars Richard Gere and Diane Lane.
Now, I'd say the scenes with Diane are steamy enough to warrant the rental,
but you'll want to watch the interaction of the French guy who seduces her.
Watch the various elements of his approach and style. He goes for a kind
of rogue-ish look with his clothes and attitude. And watch how he builds
the tension of the seduction from the very start with his humor and steps
forwards. There are a few things to be learned here.
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The advice I've been given from these e-mails is incredible! It really does
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(which I shall label "A") who believed I was, and I quote "sick", just for
liking her, then I found out she had a guy who she hardly ever saw, ever
spoke to, and is still with him.
Problem is I work on the same team with her every weekend, she just completely
ignored at me and snapped whenever I even spoke to her! Her words were, "I'm
really flattered but, it's got to stop", she refused even to see a friend
I put the tips and methods to work on another girl ("B") who had rejected
me about two years ago. I turned up with "B" at the official Christmas dinner
for the workplace.
Nice little girlie "A" 's jaw soon dropped and avoided me for the evening.
I decided that I was now in control and started to play on "A" 's mind! I
got very, very close to "B" during that evening and we were passing sexy
looks at each other all the time! I even got an invite to bed that evening!
I noticed that "A" had been asking around to find out who "B" exactly was.
Whenever she questioned me about it I just gave her the blind eye. I've not
started a conversation with "A" since she's done all that, I answer her questions
shortly and move away, with the strong appearance that i'm not interested.
I've been playing mind games with her ever since, and she's trying to put
on the "happy, friendly" face to me, asking little things like, "oh, how
was your flight by the way?", which she doesn't ask anyone else.
A" now constantly starts little conversations with me, to try and get me
to talk to her, but I keep her struggling! "A" even wonders why she's the
only one I don't buy drinks for.
It now seems that the tables have turned, instead of me trying to chase her,
I've stopped and got my own life and "A" 's wonders why i'm not chasing her
anymore! Since then i've acquired a lot more respect from other people at
the workplace! Using [your] advice I've turned the whole situation around.
I am in no way nasty to her, I just keep her tugging at the rope to try and
re-gain my friendliness in her. I'm now in control and I will decide when
she can have me back. Just a few more weeks, when she really starts talking
to me with a bit more confidence and friendliness, then i'll let it go and
she can have me.
Thanks for all the great advice!!
Wow! Great work!
That's the way to turn things around for you. You got a girl you used to
have back, and managed to get the one who dissed you interested in you again.
There really wasn't a question in this email, but I wanted to point out more
about why this approach is working.
Keep in mind: Good looking women get attention from men ALL THE TIME.
Women get hit on constantly.
How would you behave if you got approached by women ALL THE TIME? Really,
think about it. You might THINK you would be in heaven, because a guy's experience
is that he is NEVER approached, and has to do all the work. Your mind has
been conditioned differently than a woman's.
In reality, after enough time, it would get TIRING to have women approaching
you all the time. It would be annoying to have ugly chicks as well as the
occasional pretty ones coming up and hitting on you everywhere you went,
to the store or to the pub or even on a bus.
You'd actually get pretty sick of it. I know you might not think so right
now, especially if you've been going through a bit of a dry spell, but it's
true. It's human nature to take for granted what comes to us easily.
Women are in that situation. Even the average looking gals get picked up
on, and they all have to find a way to deal with it. Her attitude starts
from when she is first approached by a guy.
Let's step back and look at this from the beginning...
What happens is a program is setup in her mind that goes like this:
"Okay, enough is enough. If this is going to happen
all the time, I need to find some way to weed out the good
guys from the losers. Here's what I'll do:
" If a guy approaches me, I'm going to just act indifferent.
I have no way of knowing which one is a confident, Alpha Man, so I'll just
treat them all the same. I'll be nice, but that's IT. If he wants to get any
further with me, he's going to have to work a little for it and get past my
" If he shows me that he's different in some way, by humor
or by some other interesting quality, this program shuts down and I'll deal
with the situation. If he doesn't demonstrate that he's unique from the last
37 guys who tried, I'll just shut his program down and move on.
" This program ends with a cool smile and walking away."
It's a time-saver and necessary for her to weed you out from the rest. Good
looking women know they already possess what you want.
Think about that for a second.
How do you behave when you know you have something somebody else wants?
So when you were starting to ignore the woman who thought you were pretty
much her plaything, a new program kicked over in her head:
"All guys are into hot women. And since I think I am attractive, he should
want me. Why doesn't he want me?
"I need to find out why he wants her instead. What does SHE have?"
Jealousy, competitiveness, curiosity - all of these are working in your favor.
However, there are some women that are only interested when you're not. Beware
that she might be one of these.
This translates into her attitude down the road, where she will want to know
why her usual pattern hasn't started the same way - with you falling over
yourself to give her attention.
When a woman loses your attention, it's worse than not having had it to start
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I will caution the other guys out there to use the information you learn
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because we interpret women's behavior to be that - messing with us. But it's
not on-purpose. They are only acting in accordance with their emotional programming,
the same way guys are behaving "rationally" with their logical programming.
If you resort to purposeful game playing with women, you will end up causing
more anger and resentment in the long run. Instead, remember that she's looking
for the same results you are, just in a different way.
Women will behave in ways that may seem illogical, but they are actually
quite PREDICTABLE when you understand her motivations.
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