Dating Dynamics http://www.datingdynamics.com Dating Advice For Men Thu, 07 Jun 2012 17:26:45 +0000 en-US hourly 1 How To Attract A Woman http://www.datingdynamics.com/how-to-attract-a-woman/how-to-attract-a-woman/ http://www.datingdynamics.com/how-to-attract-a-woman/how-to-attract-a-woman/#comments Tue, 24 Apr 2012 12:25:40 +0000 http://www.datingdynamics.com/?p=47 Do you dream of becoming a man who attracts women in his sleep? Do you want to be the type of man whom others consider a force to be reckoned with?

It’s a lot easier than you think. All it involves is emulating the thoughts, attitudes, and actions of a man who pulls women in his sleep.

You can emulate those traits and characteristics until they become a natural part of your personality. Keep in mind that these particular traits are even more important than good looks, a successful career, or a fat wallet.

If you really want to know how to attract a woman, you need to step back and work on being the most attractive man you can be. And I’m not talking physical attractive, either.

Here are the first three points you should concentrate your efforts on if you want to be the type of man who women want to spend time with over and over again.

How To Attract A Woman Goals:

1. Generate Trust

Trust refers to the woman’s comfort level with you. Every once in a while, I woman desires a man so greatly that she will push away her trust issues and go for it. But that happens so seldom, you don’t want to waste time banking on this happening for you. Instead, make it your number one goal to create a feeling of trust within this woman. Start early and reinforce it often.

2. Build Attraction

Did you know you could create and generate chemistry? It’s not a case of its either there or it’s not. It can be built, created, and increased. Chemistry, which boils down to your connection and the physical and emotional draw you have toward one another, can be sparked.

Looks have very little to do with it. Good looks only serve to kindle that first spark of interest, but it never lasts very long without the rest of the package. In fact, I’d go so far as to say that extremely good-looking men have to work harder. Women tend to be a little bit suspicious and wary of them, worried that they are players and will take longer to trust them (See goal number one).

A more typical looking guy has a better chance of generating trust and attraction. If you want to build attraction there is a secret strategy, I’ll share with you: Demonstrate in some way that nobody, including her, intimidates you. This one trait alone will build attraction.

3. Demand and Give Respect.

Women want to feel respected. Don’t ever make her feel like you are using her or out to get something from her. You must be respectful in all your interactions. And, in return, you should demand and insist that she respect you and treat you with respect. The sure fire way to get respect is to set and enforce your boundaries and limits. Know what you will put up with and what you absolutely will not tolerate.

For instance, you know that if she cheated on you, that is an automatic deal breaker and the relationship is over no matter what.

If you want to effectively learn how to attract a woman, remember these three goals and you are almost there.

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How Men Attract Women http://www.datingdynamics.com/how-men-attract-women/how-men-attract-women/ http://www.datingdynamics.com/how-men-attract-women/how-men-attract-women/#comments Tue, 24 Apr 2012 12:22:33 +0000 http://www.datingdynamics.com/?p=49 Sometimes it seems like a mystery why some men get all the hot women while other guys can’t nab a date to save their lives. It’s not a mystery. It’s not rocket science. It’s pretty simple, actually. There are really no secrets to how men attract women.

Instead, there are certain traits that men learn to exhibit that make women crazy about them. By learning these traits and adopting them as your own, you can also be successful with picking up women.

I like to call them the essential alpha male traits and they are truly the key to unlocking the question of how men attract women.

Women want a manly man even more than they want a man who is large enough, rich enough or good-looking enough. They want a man who believes in taking charge and isn’t afraid to be a leader or go for what he wants. Women say men like this are the biggest turn on. Sure, it doesn’t hurt to be wealthy, good looking or well-endowed, but ultimately that is not going to be what attracts a woman. Women are dialed in on a primitive, biological level to choose a man with alpha male traits over a rich, handsome guy.

How Men Attract Women Traits:

1. Manliness. Don’t ever forget you are a man. Don’t be ashamed of your game. Don’t be afraid to be manly. Too many men are gun shy about their masculinity because over the past few decades it has been in vogue to be the sensitive guy. Go on ahead and be the sensitive guy, but don’t shirk your manhood in exchange. Being manly does not equal being a jerk, no matter what some might say. And besides, most importantly, women truly want a manly man.

2. Attitude of taking charge. Women want a man who is a leader. The ability to make decisions is a key alpha male trait that is necessary in attracting women. The idea is to take charge and be decisive, but not with disregard to what anyone else wants. It’s about being clear on what you want and like and not being afraid to make a choice. It doesn’t even matter if the decision is ultimately the wrong one. What matters is you were decisive.

3. Ooze self-confidence. This might be the most important alpha male trait you can adopt and exhibit. Self-confidence shows that you like who you are. It also shows a healthy self-respect. When you respect and like yourself, others will naturally do the same.

4. Emotional control. It’s okay to be a sensitive guy who cries at a sad movie, but it is important to not get too caught up in emotions and let them overtake you if you want to exhibit alpha male traits. Walk that fine line between being in touch with how you feel and being comfortable with those feelings, but not an emotional wreck who allows those feelings to dictate how he acts and what he does and says.

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How to Call Girls http://www.datingdynamics.com/how-to-call-girls/how-to-call-girls/ http://www.datingdynamics.com/how-to-call-girls/how-to-call-girls/#comments Fri, 20 Apr 2012 16:28:24 +0000 http://www.datingdynamics.com/?p=51 You did it. You finally snagged numbers from the three hottest girls at your gym. Now, with those digits in your cell phone, the next step is to dial the number and talk to them. Ultimately your goal is to set up an in person meeting.

But just what should you say? Should you call the cutest one now even though you only got her number a few hours ago? What exactly should you do so she doesn’t think you are a psycho stalker, but instead is intrigued by you and is eager to see you alone?

How to Call Girls Rules:

1. The first rule is do not under any circumstance call her the first day you get her number. I’m sure you’ve had friends who say they’ve done this and it has worked out just fine, but that’s not the path you are going to take. Until you becoming an alpha male dating guru teaching other men the intricacies of navigating the dating arena, you are going to play it safe and sure. So, you are going to call her 48 hours after you get her number.

2. The second rule to remember is that it will help your dating game dramatically if you are dating several women at once. By doing this, you will automatically exude confidence and assuredness during your conversation with a girl. You don’t need to mention your active dating life and I would say avoid talking about it at all costs. But knowing that this girl is not your only hope will make you appear naturally attractive without you saying a darn thing about it.

3. The best strategy for a phone conversation is to continually steer the talk back to her. Focus on her so much that at least 70 percent of the conversation has to do with her, not you. Listen to what she has to say instead of imagining her naked. While you listen, pay attention for red flags that might show she’s a bad fit for you. (See Rule No. 4 below.)

4. During your phone conversation, don’t only listen to the words she is saying, but also try to understand the meaning behind those words. For instance, if she talks overly about her sister’s baby, that might mean she’s ready to settle down and have a family and looking for a man to do that with.

If that’s not in your immediate future, file that little bit of information away and look for other red flags that might back it up.

Also, what she chooses to talk to you about might give you an indication of her personality. For instance, if she is a malcontent, she might spend the entire time complaining about her boss.

Right now is the time to listen and make a mental note of what could be potential red flags. Don’t act on them now, but keep them in mind for future reference.

5. Your last rule and step, is to set up a simple in-person meeting before you get off the phone with her. Plan something unique and exciting that preferably involves very little money.

Impress her instead with your creativity in your choice of what to do on a date.

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Date Women Online http://www.datingdynamics.com/date-women-online/date-women-online/ http://www.datingdynamics.com/date-women-online/date-women-online/#comments Wed, 11 Apr 2012 15:08:57 +0000 http://www.datingdynamics.com/?p=42 It seems like everything takes place online now: business deals, friendships, and especially matchmaking.

The relationships formed don’t only stem from dating websites. Relationships are forged through other social media sites, such as Facebook and Twitter, as well.

Because of this, if you are a single guy, you better be savvy about how to date women online or you will be losing out on a huge chunk of the single women population.

Women, even more so than men, embrace social media.

It is where they pour their heart out and share their good news. It is where they keep in touch with all their friends.

If you are a man, it is a chance to meet women outside your normal social circle. The options that social media open up are endless. Learning how to date women online will broaden your horizons exponentially.

Any single guy out there looking to date cannot ignore dating online.

Of course, it’s not perfect. There are a few small drawbacks. For instance, when you first interact with someone, you don’t know for sure, there will be any chemistry until you meet in person.

But that is offset by the benefit of the process to date women online, which essentially acts as a filter. You narrow the field and concentrate on women with similar interests.

Most of the time when you see someone across a crowded room, you are only attracted to the way they look. When you walk up to them and strike up a conversation, you might find that she loves everything you hate. Strike out.

But when you date women online, you can sift through all the available women out there and focus on the women who have similar interests.

That’s why before you even dip your big toe into the dating pool, you need to really sit down and think about what is important to you in a dating partner. Make a list of deal breakers and must haves.

For instance, you might decide that it is crucial that the women are nonsmokers. Or you might decide when you look for a woman to date that they must share your similar political views. This is a highly individualized process. Take the time to figure out what is important to you and that will help you find success in your online dating.

Here are a few ideas to help you garner success when you date women online:

1. When you write your profile, it’s okay to use a little bit of poetic license. Don’t lie, don’t exaggerate, and keep things a bit vague. You don’t need to spill the beans, here. You are only trying to generate interest.

2. Pay money, if necessary, to have the most flattering picture you can on your profile. Research what women like in an online dating profile picture. For instance, most women say unless you are a model, they are turned off by pictures of a man bare chested on his dating profile.

3. When you respond, use what is essentially a form letter for all the women, but include a detail you found off her profile.

These are just a few tips; you can brainstorm more and decide what will work best when you start out on your quest to date women online.

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How to Call A Girl http://www.datingdynamics.com/how-to-call-a-girl/how-to-call-a-girl/ http://www.datingdynamics.com/how-to-call-a-girl/how-to-call-a-girl/#comments Mon, 09 Apr 2012 18:08:01 +0000 http://www.datingdynamics.com/?p=40 Every day for months, you hope that when you get in the elevator that cute girl who gets off on the fourth floor will be there.

You even find something stupid to do in front of the elevator at times, in the hopes that she’ll appear. You’ve studied up on dating tips and techniques, but you still feel a little insecure when it comes to how to call a girl. It hasn’t always panned out for you in the past.

You figure you’ll deal with that when the time comes. When she gets on the elevator and you have a chance to talk.

Well, today, it did.

And when you got on, luckiest of days, it was just the two of you.

Better yet, she commented on your new bag and you guys struck up a conversation. Then she mentions that she loves reading books and is hoping to check out that brand new independent bookstore that just opened up around the corner.

She looks pointedly at you when she says this. You realize it’s now or never and take a deep breath before you ask for her number. You tell her that you are dying to check it out, as well, so it would be great if you guys did it together. You tell her that you’ll check your schedule and give her a call when you know you have a free night.

Then, the elevator dings. The door opens. She says, “Great.” And leaves.

You lean back against the doors and then jump up and down saying, “YES!” Then you wonder if the small camera in the corner of the elevator actually works and if the security guard thinks you’re a lunatic. But then you don’t care and jump up and down again and shout “Yes!” doing the fist pump.

The elevator door opens and suddenly you are struck by a paralyzing thought, “Oh, crap. Now what?”

Your insecurity about how to call a girl overwhelms you. Don’t despair. Here are a few general rules of thumb that will guide you:

How to Call A Girl Rules:

1. Don’t call her the same day you get her phone number. Wait two days.

2. If she doesn’t pick up, leave a quick message that sounds something like this: “Hi, It’s Brian. We met in the elevator and talked about going to the bookstore. Give me a call.”

Period. It should involve nothing else. No gushing about how great it was to meet her. No talk about how excited you are to get together. Nothing else. Your name. Where you met. What you talked about. Call me. Period.

3. Wait two days. If she hasn’t called back by then, call her one more time. That’s it. No more. That is plenty of chances. If you call her more than that, she will assume you are desperate and lose any interest she might have had. On that second call back, be firmer and less nice. You might say something, such as “My week is filling up. Wanted to check back with you one more time before I make plans to go to the bookstore.”

If you follow these three rules alone, you will be just fine. If she doesn’t return your calls, her loss. You know you’ve played it right.

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How To Flirt With A Girl Over Text http://www.datingdynamics.com/how-to-flirt-with-a-girl-over-text/how-to-flirt-with-a-girl-over-text/ http://www.datingdynamics.com/how-to-flirt-with-a-girl-over-text/how-to-flirt-with-a-girl-over-text/#comments Sat, 07 Apr 2012 05:04:03 +0000 http://www.datingdynamics.com/?p=44 It’s not rocket science, but learning how to flirt with a girl over text does take a little more effort than flirting in person does.

There is a bit of a learning curve.

That is partly because so much of flirting in person is done through body language. We flirt by sending subtle signals to each other that express interest.

For instance, when you learn how to flirt with a girl over text, you can automatically throw out strong eye contact and smiling on your part to convey your interest.

In addition, the flirting back and forth becomes complicated because you have no way of gauging her reaction to your flirting or her interest in you through body language.

In person, you can usually pick up if a woman is flirting with you if you know the subtle signals to look for, such as her mimicking your body movements (take a drink whenever you do), playing with her hair, dilated pupils, body turned toward you instead of away from you, and so on.

Over text, you have no idea if she’s sitting there blushing as red as a rose or if she is rolling her eyes at what you have written. It’s a bit more complicated, now isn’t it?

So when you learn how to flirt with a girl over text, you probably are going to have a few hits and misses in the beginning. Look at it as a bit of an experiment at first.

Probably the easiest way to flirt with text is to use every little scrap of humor and wittiness you can dredge up in yourself.

Being funny is a great way to flirt and if done right, you can easily convey this in texting.

In other words, in learning how to flirt with a girl over text, you are going to have to sharpen and hone that funny bone.

For instance, she might say, “I’m too tired to get out of bed today.” And you might respond, “I bet you say that to all the boys.”

It’s kind of stupid and kind of funny at the same time. It doesn’t really go with what she told you so there is a good chance she is both laughing and rolling her eyes at your dumb joke. That works.

You can get away with saying sort of dumb funny things on text better than you can in person, actually. Usually if it isn’t clear you are joking, you can simply add a smiley face and voila, your meaning is clear.

Probably the best thing to remember when learning how to flirt with a girl over text is avoiding complimenting her. That is the death knell.

Flirting in person may involve compliments, but over text, they usually just make you look desperate. Texting her something like “you’re so pretty” just sounds lame.

And, of course, all the rules for how to flirt with a girl over text completely change once you’ve been intimate with a girl. That’s when it can get really fun. That’s when you can use texting to build anticipation for the next get together by saying something, such as “I’m just remembering how hot you looked in that turquoise dress and hope you wear it again tonight so I can take it off you.”

Easy.

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Tips on Romance http://www.datingdynamics.com/tips-on-romance/tips-on-romance/ http://www.datingdynamics.com/tips-on-romance/tips-on-romance/#comments Mon, 19 Mar 2012 16:19:08 +0000 http://www.datingdynamics.com/?p=31 Women like romance. If you want to seduce a woman, you better know how to give her that romantic feeling she craves.

If you don’t have a romantic bone in your body, don’t despair. You can take a few simple steps to add romance to your life.

Here are some tips on romance that focus on three key areas during your date: you, your car, and your home. Most of these tips are focusing on preparing for a meeting of a romantic nature. Although, they refer to that first date, you can always use these ideas to impress someone you are already dating and add a little spice to your relationship:

Tips on Romance – You

  • Get pumped up for your date by playing your favorite music. Either play something that gets you amped or something that relaxes you, depending on what you need.
  • Do push-ups or other exercise right before you leave to get your endorphins flowing and to add a little pheromone to your sweat.
  • Have a piece of fruit or an energy bar to tide your hunger over so you don’t wolf down food like a pig or get crabby from low blood sugar levels.
  • Use cologne. Put on less scent than you think you need.
  • Groom yourself painstakingly. That means your nails, hair, beard, teeth, lotion, and use mouthwash.
  • The day of your date, get online and find two stories in the news that would make good fodder for conversation. Usually ones that are dramatic involving people do best.
  • Vow that no matter how the evening ends, it will be a success because you have given it your best shot.
  • If things are going well, make sure you always, always go in for a kiss at the end of the night so you don’t end up in the dreaded friend zone.
  • Ideally, your date will end with an invite back to your home, which will be prepared for romance (see below).

Tips on Romance – Your Car

  • Keep your car immaculate, inside and out.
  • Have a deodorizer.
  • If you smoke, try not to do so in your vehicle. At the very least, empty your ashtray every day.
  • Keep a cool collection of music to drive around by.

Tips on Romance — Your Home

  • Stock up on candles and fill your house with them. Avoid lightly scented ones in case you pick a scent that you like but nobody else does. Or else, choose a neutral scent such as vanilla or cinnamon.
  • Put dimmers on all your lights, to keep the lighting romantic.
  • Music. Have music at your fingertips. Have a long set list that will play tunes for seduction without you having to get up off the couch, or bed.
  • Have something good to drink. Stock up on beer, wine, plain water, and bubbly water.
  • Have something light to munch, on such as grapes, crackers and cheese.
  • Make sure you have soft and comfortable furniture. It doesn’t help to have a lot of pillows to lounge on, in your bed, and on your couch.
  • Have a cool screensaver on your computer.

If you incorporate even half of these tips on romance, you and your women friends will be much happier in the long run.

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Attract Women Secrets http://www.datingdynamics.com/attract-women-secrets/attract-women-secrets/ http://www.datingdynamics.com/attract-women-secrets/attract-women-secrets/#comments Mon, 19 Mar 2012 16:17:03 +0000 http://www.datingdynamics.com/?p=33 When it comes to attracting women, it helps for men to learn as many tips and techniques as they can. There is nothing under-handed about this, it is simply learning what women want and being able to give that to them.

You can call it a secret or call it a tool, but by knowing a technique or two, both you and the women you date will be happier.

Attract Women Secrets and Tools:

1. Tease to Please.

Any man who can hone his skills and become adept at the fine art of teasing is bound to attract more women than he has time for. Teasing works on so many levels. When you tease a woman, you are not only making her feel comfortable with you, but you are also subtly letting her know that you are not intimidated by her. You are showing that she is not up on a pedestal. You are exhibiting self-confidence and making her laugh at the same time, which is always a winning combination.

2. Kino.

Kino stands for kinesthetic stimulation, which basically means touching someone with the goal of arousing them. If you learn how to sensually touch a woman, she will be putty in your hands. Most men are like bears in a china shop and have very little understanding of how to use touch to seduce and attract women.

Men need to study kino and learn the areas of the body that are easily aroused and that are erotic zones. For instance, a brief touch on her lower back as you pass by can be incredibly seductive and stimulating to a woman.

3. Alpha Male Traits.

Tailor your behavior to exhibit certain traits that women are attracted to. For example, women are biologically attracted to men who indicate that they have the following:

  • Connections and social status
  • Resources and wealth to provide for a family
  • Physically attractive
  • Tall
  • Emotional and physical strength
  • Good health
  • Intelligence

Now, don’t despair if you weren’t naturally born handsome or if you are barely scraping by in the finance department. You can still exhibit the other traits. And remember, just be dressing nice and taking care of yourself, you can seem physically attractive to any woman.

4. Push-Pull

Learn how to use the push-pull technique to amp up her attraction to you.

You can study this technique further, but in essence, it involves keeping her guessing about your attraction toward her. For instance, you might grab her and give her a big, sexy kiss, but then push her away and say it’s time for you to leave.

5. Learn the Long Second.

The long second refers to your ability to speed up or slow down time when you are with a woman. Sometimes a woman wants to feel like she’s known you a long time before she becomes intimate with you. You can distort the sense of time in a psychological way. One way to do this is to change venues within a few hours.

This creates the sense that time has passed.

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Online Dating Profile Examples http://www.datingdynamics.com/online-dating-profile-examples/online-dating-profile-examples/ http://www.datingdynamics.com/online-dating-profile-examples/online-dating-profile-examples/#comments Tue, 13 Mar 2012 17:27:14 +0000 http://www.datingdynamics.com/?p=35 You’ve taken the plunge and joined an online dating group. You think you’ve done a good job setting up your profile, but you’re not quite sure since this is all new.

Here are some things to avoid in your profile, if you want to meet women:

Online Dating Profile Examples That Fails:

1. “I still live with my mom and dad.”

Your parents might be the coolest two people on the planet, but no girl in her right mind is going to want to date a guy who lives at home. It’s like having a big L blazed on your forehead. It screams LOSER.

However, with that said, there are some men who have been forced to move back home because of the economy. The trick is in how you tell her you live at home. Don’t do this until you’ve been on at least two dates and then you can spin it to your advantage by making sure to point out it is a temporary situation. Make a joke out of it by saying you put your foot down by refusing to sleep in your old room with the Star Wars wallpaper. Don’t bash your parents, either.

2. “Looking for a woman who likes to go Dutch.”

I don’t care if you can’t scrape together enough money for a hot dog, you should never ever include your dire financial situation on your online profile. Hot women never need to go Dutch. In fact, not-so-hot women don’t need to, either. Nobody likes a tightwad. Start saving your money now so you can foot the bill on any date. Better yet, be creative and brainstorm some affordable or free date activities that will impress her more than any fancy meal.

3. “This is a picture of me and my cat, Schnookems.”

Now, many women dig cats, but you cannot use this as a selling point in an online dating profile. You can point out you have a cat, but please, no pictures and no sharing goofy names. Of course, you are hoping that women will have the chance to meet your cuddly best friend in person, so safe introductions for then. If you are going to share pictures, show something that depicts you as a little more manly.

4. “I’m unemployed.”

It’s true with the job market today this is a possibility, but save that bit of personal information for after the first meeting. You don’t need to volunteer this in your profile. If it does come up during that first date, don’t be a loser by badmouthing the company. Instead, focus on your efforts to change the situation and how losing this job might have been a blessing in disguise, since something better awaits you around the corner.

5. “I really don’t expect this to work. My profile isn’t that great compared to others.”

Basically, you’re broadcasting to the world that you think you’re a loser and guess what, they are going to agree. You are not being modest. You are being dumb, sounding needy, and wimpy.

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How To Approach A Woman http://www.datingdynamics.com/how-to-approach-a-woman/how-to-approach-a-woman/ http://www.datingdynamics.com/how-to-approach-a-woman/how-to-approach-a-woman/#comments Mon, 05 Mar 2012 18:10:44 +0000 http://www.datingdynamics.com/?p=18 Do you want a simple, detailed road map on approaching women during the middle of the day? Read on. There are thousands of ways to approach women, but this is one of the easiest and best ways to make a genuine connection with a woman that will want to stick around after that first date.

How To Approach A Woman Steps:

1. Locations, Preparation, and Scouting.

Your first step in approaching a woman is to choose a location that is frequented by a lot of women. For instance, a coffee shop, bookstore, the market, the mall, or a museum would be good choices. Once you decide on your location, take some time to practice walking up and talking to random strangers. Learn how to be talkative by asking women and men for directions or for the time. Learn how to engage strangers until it feels completely natural.

Once you feel comfortable walking up to random strangers, go visit your chosen location and scout out the women walking by. Once you find one you like, move onto step number 2.

2. The approach. Without giving yourself time to hesitate and talk yourself out of it, walk up to the woman you are interested in with a friendly smile. As soon as you get close, ask her for direction to a place you know is nearby (you’ve already scouted out this location, remember?). Once she gives you directions, follow with a question about the place you are going.

For instance, if you are asking her about a clothing store, you might be about to leave, but then turn around at the last minute and ask what type of outfit she thinks a 12-year-old girl would like. You can say you are buying your little sister (or niece) a gift, but aren’t sure what girls that age wear. Ask her for her advice.

3. The convo.

At this point, you’ve asked your question. As you listen, it is crucial that you are watching her body language and the energy y of the conversation. If she seems impatient, or rude, or bored, or fidgety, then it’s time to go. If her body language is telling you she’s eager to get out of there (her legs or body are faced away from you), it might be time to move on and talk to someone else instead.

However, if she seems friendly and the conversation is going well, continue the vibe by asking her advice on something to do with relationships. You might ask her opinion on how you see your friends’ girlfriend acting toward him, or something else. You can explain that you want a female perspective on it, because as a guy maybe you are missing something.

4. Make your move.

If the conversation is flowing, try to sit down. If she’s already sitting, tell her you can only stay a minute. Ask her name. Don’t offer your name.

Continue your conversation, while avoiding boring questions such as asking her where she works. Also, avoid questions she can answer with yes or no. As the conversation continues, you might want to create a sense of fun and connection by using gentle teasing.

5. Get her number.

During the entire conversation, keep an eye on the energy between you and watch her body language. If all signs point to “Go” now is the time to get her number. Do so, by mentioning a favorite place and telling her that she’d love it there. Say that the two of you should go sometime and hand her your phone, telling her to put her digits into it. Tell her you have to run and give her a big smile before you leave.

These are some tips on how to approach a woman.

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