Observations on Mystery vs. Confusion from a Reader: Weekly Alpha Tip

Weekly Alpha Man Tip

This reader wrote in to comment about one of my recent Weekly Alpha Man Tips regarding "attraction friction."
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Ways to overcome attraction friction is to also to carry your own positive mood which is positive regardless of the situation. Don't reach rapport with a negative feeling unless you know for sure you are apt at spinning it 100% into something positive eventually.

The point between confusion and mystery was excellent. Confusion is always bad, and mystery can seem dishonest if overdone.

I was looking into leadership (Carnagie leadership) and found there are many skills of a leader that women just love as well:

-never look for who is at fault-it is useless
-be ok with your responsibility of everything, because you are the leader, you should be critical of yourself but see every situation as a learning opportunity
-be optimistic
-have a vision
-admit your own prior challenges and how you have grown from them - you will instantly be more likable and also be seen as more dimensional
-be calm under any circumstance with control
-find out what is the worst case scenario and do your damnest to minimize it
-develop interest in people, especially if it is something that you are not familiar with and learn from them

Strong work Carlos.
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CARLOS COMMENTS:

Good points, all of them.

Mystery is an element that must be added - like spice - to your interactions. Too many guys build up their entire game around a concept that works, and they use it over and over. Essentially, they become "one trick ponies," unable to be in a conversation with the sheer power of their own personality.

You've listed a great many of the qualities that I discuss completely in my Secrets of the Alpha Man program.

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