MSN and the "Who Pays On The First Date?" Question

I found an interesting item in MSN today. It was at the very end of an article discussing how women want the man to pay on the first date.

Read on:
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"Giving stronger female role models to children will help us break out of this pattern," says Barrow. "Men will eventually disengage from the money equals power equals self-worth thing and as they do that, females will learn to define their own self-worth differently."

Fat chance, says writer Spangler.

"I don't care what the feminists say; a man is a man," she says. "He's got a sex drive and he doesn't value the girl that pays. There are some things that are true, whether you want them to be or not."

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CARLOS COMMENTS:

This "Spangler" has it dead on.

There ARE some things that are true, whether you want them to be or not. (I call this the Principle of Truth in my e-book.)

"Barrow" is yet another of the intellectual drones who thinks that wishful thinking will create a sudden change in the direction of our socialization. Good luck.

You don't just change how thousands of years of evolution have programmed us overnight. You don't just change how an entire GENDER reads attraction from the other.

(And it sure as hell won't change in YOUR lifetime, dear reader.)

The reality is that men are expected to pay. It's a sign of Alpha Man leadership and responsibility.

But the other part of this reality is that you don't have to take women out to "dinner and a movie" and blow $100 on her right off the bat. You can do a little qualification of your own to determine if she's worth the investment.

How do you do this?

You'll find out in The Dating Black Book. Download it HERE.

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