Saturday, March 03, 2007

Shut inside like a recluse... Uh... not good.

Well about 6 months ago something happened and I decided not to go out with friends and just stay inside my house and train in martial arts for 6 months straight. About 3 months into my goal I met this girl that goes to my school and we started talking and I find out she also takes martial arts and we started talking. She gave me the obvious signs of interest but I didn't move it further because there was no point because I am staying at home and dont go out.

Her friends tell me that she was interested in me but I stopped talking to her.

Well 6 months is almost over and I havent talked to her in a couple of months and she still gives me signs (smiling at me during the halls. She probably thinks I'm scared because I didn't ask her out.

Should I just move on after my 6 months because she will probably think im scared or still try to get the number after 6 months is over?

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Well...

Hmm...

I'm trying to find a nice way of saying this.

I think your self-imposed seclusion has a price, my friend. I appreciate that you had a goal and wanted to accomplish it, and, yes, it is sometimes necessary to swing the pendulum way over ...

Sometimes.

This does seem a bit extreme. As an instructor, I appreciate your dedication, however, keep in mind that true martial arts training (if it's to be effective in real combat) would require you to work with a partner. And you'll still need to be training ongoing. (There is no substitute for interacting with a live human being.)

But again, I salute your dedication.

The reason she still smiles at you is because it would be socially uncomfortable not to acknowledge your previous conversations or connection.

Here are your options:

1) Tell her what you're doing, and then tell her you want to see her when your goal is complete.

2) If she isn't responsive to you later, chalk it up as the price you pay for sequestering yourself inside. Sometimes you can't rebound back into someone's life. Women are expecting ACTION. In evolutionary terms, they know that the man that makes decisions and takes action is a better bet for her.

Look at it this way, you've got nothing to lose by asking, right?

The very least you can do is to go talk to her and see how it goes.

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