Cell phones and hot women - it's a lockout
I have a situation that has been bothering me and I know its also an issue with other guys here but they don't want to admit it.
I been noticing lately that most of the HB's I want to talk to are usually on the cellphone walking around. So how would the Alpha man deal with a HB on her cell walking around? I find this to be very difficult to deal with.
Yes, the reality is that you will frequently find yourself at the mercy of a "lockout" element. A "lockout" is anything a hot woman uses to keep herself inaccessible - a convenient excuse to not talk to you, ignore you, or keep her life uncomplicated with the approaches of chump men.
It really all boils down to a few things...
First of all: Do you have the persistence to break into her world?
If you don't have the deeply-grounded and rooted belief in yourself that is necessary, you'll cave the first time she pushes back on you.
There's a reason she's on the cell phone. It gives her a convenient and powerful excuse to not talk to guys who approach her.
Imagine the life of a Hot Woman:
- Approached all day long
- Dorky guys constantly trying to get her number
- Chumps always looking to satisfy their personal agenda with her
- Having to turn guys down all the time
- Preferring to avoid it by keeping a cell phone clamped to her head
But seriously, if you had dorky women approaching you all day long, you'd come up with these kinds of defense mechanisms, too. It simplifies life.
So how do you deal with it?
Waver her down. Stop her with a very serious look on your face.
"Hey, I need your attention."
When you get it:
"I realize you're probably blissfully happy not to have to talk to the other dorks who tried to pick up on you today, but I'm not one of them. I just wanted to let you know that you have a wonderful energy about you. If you're interested in learning more, get rid of that call and meet me over here. K?"
Wait and watch her out of the corner of her eye, not directly.
When she gets rid of her call, you're on.
And if you need any other tactics and methods for approach, you can learn them here: Approach Women NOW!