AMOGs, Conflicts, and Seminars:

Wussap carlos! First off, let me thank you for all the kick ass advice you provide for us guys on your pod cast every week. I also have a copy of your alpha male
book and I love it.

I was wondering if you were going to throw any workshops or in-field workshops anytime soon. If you were planning to I would like to know what they will cover and what they will be about. I was hoping that besides covering dating and women that
you will cover how to be more socially presentable at parties, conventions, or at work.

I was also hoping that you would also cover AMOG tactics. I read from your book that you teach martial arts and I am very interested in how you handle AMOGS or assholes in the club trying to start a conflict with you or your women and how to effectively handle such a situation. I also practice marital arts but I have never been in such confrontations and I would like to use my wits and verbal martial arts instead of any physical violence.

Let me know, peace.
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CARLOS:


Well, truth be told, I am planning for a seminar here in San Francisco in the early part of 2006. (Which - for you guys who are screaming out "that's next year!" - is actually right around the corner.)

I'll be sending out a notice to the Seminars mailing list very soon, so make sure you're on it. We'll be doing classroom and an in-field workshop doing approaches and talking to women.

AMOGS aren't generally a problem for me. The reason is that AMOGs show up when they think they've got something to prove by blowing out your game. I can disarm almost any person in just a few seconds, and I'm not talking about physical disarming. You only have to keep your wits about you and use a little conversational Aikido (martial art of turning your opponent's energy against him) to avoid 99.99% of all fights.

Having the confidence that I CAN handle these situations leads to having a calming effect on my interactions with these kinds of guys, which then lowers the grunt-factor quite a bit. I don't feel threatened, so I'm able to convey a cool, suave personality to the woman.

Some guys think that AMOGs are being Alpha, but they're really not. They're just pesky annoyances to swat away with your sense of self-confidence. An AMOGs game is easy to bust because it's so transparent.

Social skills are really what all this dating and seduction material relates to. Ultimately, your social skill is your primary determinant as to how successful you'll be in life.

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